The True Measure of a Person What defines someone? Too often we judge by outer aspects like ethnicity or belief systems. But peering deeper, beyond societal labels, we find our shared humanity. Therein lies the true essence of a person. As Mahatma Gandhi declared, “The best way to find yourself is to lose yourself in the service of others.” This points to selflessness as the ultimate measure of worth. By uplifting others through compassionate action, we uplift ourselves.